His mother i disliked the essential because since quickly when I met her she was very boastful and revealed off her home and she ended up being really materialistic, such as saying ‘my husband purchases me personally this and that and then he offers me every thweng i want. Ect, thats all she ended up being interested and had been clear, she too had been narcissistic. She wasn’t enthusiastic about her son (my ex) and also explained he had been a deep failing and so they both(their moms and dads) preferred the cousin over him.it had been clear. My ex would ALWAYS defend them no real matter what and went against the things I thought for months and he stayed with me, i even remember falling out with him because his dad said he doesnt want a mixed race child in the family tree. And his brother kept telling him everyday that he should get me to abort the baby, i used to get very upset to the point i couldn’t eat about them(which i guess most would) He told them three months into the pregnancy that i was pregnant and took a scan photo round, his mum said nothing but his dad and brother were very angry with him and didnt talk to him.
For your 9 months i never saw their household, he nevertheless talked in their mind nonetheless they had been cool with him.
We separate more times than I am able to could count as he’d always place other priorities before me personally while making claims and didnt keep them, he would make enjoyable of my appearance still, accuse me personally associated with the infant not being his, call me personally a prostitute and unsightly and that im dirty english scum ect. And blame me in public areas so you can get expecting. I’d stay inside my buddies sometime after about two weeks and say he loves me personally and desires me straight back, but he had been NEVER sorry for exactly how he talked or addressed in my experience because we felt alone, but he’d text me personally.
From me, i was very worried and angry after i had my baby in the hospital, his mum and dad decided to come round and visit their grandchild, they didnt really speak to me and they took over my daughter in every way possible even to this day (she is three) Even on the way out of the hospital one of the aunties took my baby in a separate car. They explained they didnt such as the title me personally and him decided for her and desired us to provide her a indian name, they even call her an Indian name today rather than utilize her delivery name at all, they asked to help keep her for four months one time aswell! They get my woman to call them mum and dad and me personally by my very very first title. They also fill her with candies and unhealthy foods to which ive needed to state one thing to which their dad simply responded ‘i am the grandfather ill give her what i want’ we also stopped her from going round just as much and which my narcissistic ex took us to court over, coz he thought he’d a hold over me personally simply because he learned legislation.
As time proceeded before we understood he had been a narcissistic, we dropped away and got in together quantity of times, we rowed over their family members on the reality he never ever went near me, kised me ect, withdraw intercourse from me and put me straight down, he also went to a different country behind my straight back and additionally some days whenever my woman ended up being very young he’d turn their phone down and in my opinion he had been cheating. Since Ive understand him he’s had many different jobs, cars as well as 2 various homes.
We split almost a year ago, He tried getting me back once or twice or offered me out places a few times, but i never accepted. It was and still is very hard to accept and i still have to deal with his narcissistic parents in my child’s life, not disciplining my child over spoiling her and over feeding her. I was brought up with my grandparents so have no family but his who can help me out when i go back to work ect because i felt alone and very insecure in the relationship i finally had enough and.
I consequently found out through investigating as well as conversing with their ex girl that I really believe he could be a narcissistic and certainly will utilize other people to profit himself.
We stress for my child’s well being and victim she shall never be impacted by narcissism.
I then found out recently due to facebook, that he could be with an other woman (whom i thought he cheated on me personally with because of evidence) and this woman is composing exactly how in love she actually is and how he’s her prince, but their comments to her are more of the intimate nature to which this woman isn’t conscious yet, because its just been several months. But quickly she’s going to start to see the genuine him, nasty, cold, controlling, bored effortless, unsettled selfish guy where as he can perhaps not feel love, then he’ll be on to their next target for their supply.
However in the mean time I need to bring his youngster up the i that is best can, whilst setting up along with his childish games and their families influence on my daughters life.
Many thanks for reading my long story that is dyslexic and I also want complete data recovery to women and men coping with a narcissists inside their everyday lives.